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Monday, January 25, 2010

Self Improvement Tips In Regards To Personal Appearance And First Impressions

We may overlook the importance of having a good first impression, but this could make the difference between landing a business deal and missing out. People judge you by your personal appearance thus work on improving your personal appearances. On this article I want to share with you some few tactics of ensuring your first impression counts. Click the e-books and navigation links on the left and get more information on self improvement tips and also learn more on how to better your personal appearance.


A key factor of exuding self confidence thus good first impression is eye contact. Maintaining eye contact with people shows confidence and honesty. You should not be caught darting your eyes from one corner to the other, people will not trust you. However the eye contact should not turn into a stare as it may make others uncomfortable.


The way you deliver your speech is also fundamental and shows that you have elements of self confidence. You should learn to speak elaborately. How you transfer your thoughts to speech is very important if you want to make an impact on people. Choose your words well and make your point in a clear understandable way.


When conversing, show interest or pay attention to what the other party is saying. That basically involves being a good listener. Many people can talk for ages but when it comes to listening they perform dismally. Learn to show concern to the other person genuinely. In the end with this and all the above your self esteem and personal value will be greatly boosted.


Self improvement is a journey that you need to keep at in order to achieve personal growth.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

How To Improve Your Personal Appearance And Form A Good First Impression

First impression really matter and the way you dress determine this. Being well dressed does not need a lot of effort; it is a matter of being disciplined on the way you clad and being self conscious. It does not have to be so expensive too; you do not have to rob a bank to be stylishly dressed.


Am sure we have all heard that the way we dress speaks volumes about who we are. If you do not dress seriously, you are not going to be taken seriously. But if you dress smart and neatly, you are more likely to be treated with respect thus work to improve your personal appearance.


When attending a function, know the dress code, you do not want to go on record as the ‘terribly dressed’ More importantly be neat and clean. It is unforgivable for you to wear torn, stained or wrinkled clothes.

If you have to wear any make up, please do not over do it. Also do not be so flashy by keeping your patterns to minimum. Make sure you cover up tattoos and body jewelery if you are attending a professional function. Also be conscious of how you dress your jewelery; if you choose to put on silver, then all your jewelery should be silver and likewise when you choose to put on gold. Never mix the two.


Finally, know your type and dress according to your size. Get clothes that fit you properly, do not wear anything so tight or too big. Know your skin colour and what colours will match your colour. Improve your dressing tread and your personal appearance with attract people to you. First impressions opens opportunities when you least expect.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

How Self Image Will Assist You Achieve Success

As much as you may work hard to improve your resume in order to go up the corporate ladder, if you do not work on your self image then you are bond to fail. Many people ignore the importance of working at improving their self image. They think that their qualifications will take them to the top and ignore or choose not to believe the existence of personal appearance.


Let me enlighten you on the importance of working on your self image. The first impression that people will have about you will prove to them how much you value, love and believe in yourself and your capabilities. It also goes a long way to show that you recognize your flaws and strengths.


A sad thing to note is how some people choose to ignore their weaknesses. To me this is irrational pride and that is the reason why there are people who are qualified but still end up being poor performers at their place of work. Acknowledging your flaws is in fact a strength that needs to be embraced and encouraged since it will help you work on your weakness.


One thing that can help you gain self worth is having a mentor. A good mentor should seek to change your perception of life and empower you to be able to build self confidence and hence improve your self image.


Mentorship motivates you and acts as an incentive to push you to achieve success and hence gain self confidence.

Everyday before you leave the house, look into the mirror and tell yourself that you are worth something. Believe in your capabilities and with time you will discover you have developed confidence and self worth.

Ways Of Improving your Self Confidence And Self Image

Are you wondering why people do not give you a second chance or no chance at all, yet you have brilliant business ideas? Or maybe you have academic qualifications but no company seems keen to hire your? There is one thing you need to look into and that is your image.


Little do people know that those unintended actions contribute immensely and make an impact to the people we relate to. If you have a low self esteem or are suffering from lack of self confidence, it will show by the way you carry yourself around. Your body language and posture usually will portray what is inside you.


Personally, I would recommend employers not to write off all candidates who seem to be lacking self confidence, because some of these individuals once give the right exposure they could come out in flying colors. Our backgrounds play a major role in building our self worth, hence there are people who give half a chance in the right environment would adjust and with time gain confidence.


But even with this fact, it is important for you as individual to at least be presentable. Even though you may not have the latest fashion trends, make sure your clothes are clean and well ironed. Your shoes should also be polished and your hair neat. Am trying to say, you do not need a lot of money to appear presentable.


Generally, self image is about how you view yourself. It is a combination of your physical, visual and mental state. I hope you have gained something to help you improve your first impression and hence self image.

Success In Life Is About That First Impression:

The one thing that matters most, more than your resume, the bright ideas you present or how hard you work, is the perception that people have of you. I once heard someone say, “Image is worth a thousand words.” First impression is about how we dress, the way we walk into a room, the manner we shake hands and maintain eye contact, or even the way we maintain calmness while talking to others.


The first five minutes are enough for someone to form an impression about you. One attribute that determines the first impression that others have of you is body language. These things include where you place your hands while talking to others, your body posture and as earlier mentioned how you walk. In fact, how you handle yourself contributes to over 50% of how people will view you.


Another important aspect of first impression is your tone of voice. Your tone should be friendly and inviting. Even when handling a phone call, it is important to make sure that your tone is welcoming, the person on the others side should picture you smiling.


People first form an opinion about how you look, then from there, they start judging you by the words you speak. Thus, you can then imagine if your first impression was not striking then no matter how good you talk, people will have already created an opinion about who you are.


Though we do some things unknowingly, we fail to realize that they matter a lot to the people we come in contact with. Our silent actions determine whether we land that dream job or seal that business deal.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

How To Make Sure Your First Impression Count

Am sure we have all heard that the way we dress speaks volumes about who we are. If you do not dress seriously, you are not going to be taken seriously. But if you dress smart and neatly, you are more likely to be treated with respect, this tells you that first impression matter a lot.


When attending a function, know the dress code. You do not want to go on record as the ‘terribly dressed’. More importantly, make sure you are neat and clean. It is unforgivable for you to wear torn, stained or wrinkled clothes.


If you have to wear any make up, please do not over do it. Also do not be so flashy, just keep your patterns to minimum. Make sure you cover up tattoos and body jewelry if you are attending a professional function. Also be conscious of how you dress your jewelry; if you choose to put on silver, then all your jewelry should be silver and likewise when you choose to put on gold. Never mix the two.


In addition, know your type and dress according to your size. Get clothes that fit you properly, do not go wearing anything too tight or too big. Improve your dressing tread, and watch the way people will treat you.


Proper dressing code, give you good first impression hence you will not struggle to make an impression. It is these first impressions that make you gain favor when attending an interview. Therefore, before you leave your house, check yourself on the mirror since you never know who you will meet.

Achievement - Power And Ability Of A Positive Mind

“Attitude is everything!” This statement carries so much truth that if every one took time to think about it and make necessary adjustment in life, then our lives would change for the better. Many times in our quest for self improvement, we have concentrated on changing and improving many things but our attitude.

Attitude is a person’s frame of mind. It is the mindset that a person has that helps him to develop a world view. Attitude is expressed by how we respond to issues. One person once said, “Life is not what happens to you but how you respond to issues”. Two individuals may encounter a similar negative situation but how they will each respond will determine the outcome.

One of the main attitudes we need to embrace is cultivating a positive mindset or attitude. As you read through history you encounter ordinary individuals who did extra ordinary things. Moses in the Bible was known to stammer in his speech but he became the deliverer. Abraham Lincoln on the other hand educated himself; he had no formal education but became the most acclaimed president in the history of the United States.

Mother Teresa, a simple nun in Calcutta also became an icon through her acts of mercy and philanthropy. The list could go on and on. What characterized these people was a positive mindset, they all believed in possibilities and they responded decisively for the good of humanity.

Regardless of your present status and condition, you can accomplish anything with positive thinking. There is power that is released through positive thinking and once it is released, it will always work for you. Positive thinking acts to enhance your abilities and virtues. Nothing is impossible to him that believes.

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