It is amazing how much morality levels in the society have dropped. Many married people are finding it normal to drag a third party into their marriage while acting like nothing is going on.
So how can one tell that their spouse has something up their sleeves? There is the usual excuse of working late which should give a hint. This is one of the oldest tricks in the book, that is used but if it runs for too long, it becomes questionable.
The other common trend is where a spouse walks out of the room when receiving telephone calls. It may also be noticeable that the calls are answered in whispers. Some spouses even go to the extent of carrying their cell phones to the bathroom or switching the phones off all together. If your spouse starts putting passwords on his or her computer and cell phone then most likely he or she has something to hide.
For other couples, their cheating spouse’s phone books will have pseudo-coded names such as ‘xyz’, ‘customer 1’, ‘friend’ or the numbers could have no names all together.
In some cases, a cheating spouse will tend to be harsh so as to avoid being asked questions that relate to his or her actions and whereabouts.
Initially, men were known to be the major culprits to the cheating vice but research has shown that women are catching up very fast. This is a worrying trend considering the high risks of contracting sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV Aids.
The marriage institution is facing lots of challenges and if the problems are not arrested, marriages risk being extinct.
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