As we get ready to usher in the New Year, do not let past mistakes, fears and wrong attitudes hold you back from having a successful and happy new year. Every day in our lives is a learning point, every experience make or break us according to our personal attitude. Life is a journey that helps us discover a new us.
There are four destructive things though that we should beware of;
- The deluding impression of what we see is a fact
- The despairing impression that failure is final
- The restraining impression that change will ruin things
- The fatalistic impression that we are victims of circumstances
These should be replaced with the following;
- The of faith to see beyond what is obvious
- The courage to know we are not defeated unless we give up
- The knowledge that we are in absolute control of what is happening
- The adventure of growing through change as we welcome a new us
Train yourself to be a positive thinker. At all time, have a positive attitude about life. When you catch yourself in the midst of negative thinking, shout, "Stop!" to yourself and picture a stop sign. Replace the distressing thought with another thought that is more positive and rational. For instance, if the stressful thought is, "I cannot do this: I am worthless," instead say to yourself, "There are many valuable things that I can do."
Have a positive new year full of positive attitude and thought pattern.
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