It is certain that life is an outcome of the choices we make; these choices determine our destiny and how high we rise. Everyday that we live are as a result of the choices we made at some point in our lives. Our choices determine out rate of self development.
Three common reasons why people make bad choices;
- Lack of necessary information needed to make a sound decision. Information, just like money is power. If you are not sure about something, do not rush into it. Make inquiries so as not to make mistakes that would have been otherwise avoidable. It is normal sometimes to shy or feel stupid to ask some things but remaining ignorant is worse.
- Procrastination; fear and lack of confidence can delay you from making decisions in good time. This way you stagnate in life. Postponing has never solved an issue but rather you delay finding a solution.
- Keeping the wrong company, there is a saying that goes, ‘show me your friends and I will tell you who you are’. If you hang out with jokers you are in serious trouble. Hang out with people who have achieved what you want to achieve so that they can guide you on how they made it.
- Lack of mentorship; it is always advisable to have people who we can be accountable to. The best mentors are people we respect and are experienced in the affairs of life.
Understand champions are made of challenges; do not be afraid of them. Also treat challenges as opportunities to learn new things. Personal growth comes from our daily encounter with life obstacles.
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