Life is much more than what goes on in your own life. It is also about others. The most fulfilled person in life is the person who seeks to add value in others’ lives. If for example, you are a millionaire who is surrounded by paupers, unless you get interested in changing their fate and status, they will indirectly affect your life.
Here are four ways to bring out the best in others:
- Value people
People are the greatest asset you have. Your ability to harness their potentials will determine your own success. Many times we use people selfishly to our own advantage. We stay with them because of what they can do for us, not for who they are. The key to success is to value others as individuals. People don’t care how much you know, they want to know how much you care.
- Value People’s intentions
In your conversations with friends, do you always talk about your hobbies and interests or do you seek to know what they are interested in? The human nature is such that people will always be interested with you when you get interested with their interests. This is the key to “charisma”. Why is it important? Because this shows that you desire to know other people personally.
- Be valuable
Diamond is the most valuable stone in the world hence it doesn’t need to advertise itself; its value is its worth. We can increase our value and worth through acquiring knowledge and information. Another way is by generosity.
- Focus on eternal virtues
We all get inspired by people of great virtues and ethics. It is then important to get connected to God. He improves our characters and we become people of high moral value, likable and relevant in society. There is eternity in the heart of every human being and God is the right connection.
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